How to journal for spiritual growth.

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I can tell pretty quickly if someone is serious about growing. Lots of people want to grow. They desire a different or better life in some way. Maybe they are in recovery or are looking for a spiritual mentor. Maybe they had an incredible experience at a retreat or camp that filled them with motivation to see real change happen.

When folks talk with me about next steps in spiritual growth, I always ask the same question.  I ask them if they journal. Most don’t. I ask them if they are willing to start. “I’m just not into that diary thing,” they say. Or “I’ve tried journaling, but it’s not really worked for me.” Or worse, “Oh, I don’t have time for that.”

So many misconceptions. And so many excuses. If you are serious about growing, this is one of the best tools in your toolbox. I’m going to tell you why, and then I’m going to show you how to journal.

Why Journal?

Journaling transformed my spiritual growth. It played a central role in my emotional recovery. It continues to be a near-daily part of my life. I’m a firm believer that journaling is a critical component of growth. But it’s not because journaling is magic.

Journaling isn’t a silver bullet. What matters is not the book, or pen, or prose.  What matters is reflection. Plato famously suggested that the unexamined life isn’t worth living. John Dewey made the point that we don’t really learn through experience. We learn by reflecting on our experiences.

In scripture, the call to examine our own hearts echoes over and over again. Lamentations 3:40 is just one example: “Let us search out and examine our ways, and turn back to the Lord.”

When we take time to reflect on what is happening to us, on how we responded and why, and bring that conversation before God important things happen.

  • We can start seeing patterns in our life.
  • We can notice when our ways of thinking are destructive.
  • We can identify different people or circumstances that are unhealthy for us, or that help us grow.
  • We can begin to have a consistent prayer life.  (This was the biggest change for me!)

It’s easy to wander aimlessly when you journal. I want to help you get a good start. So, first I want to tell you some things journaling is not. Then I want to give you a simple template you can use for effective journaling.

What is Journaling Not?

  • Journaling is Not Keeping A Diary.  A diary is where you recount the events in your life. In a journal, you may mention things that happened to you, but the point is not keeping a record. The point is reflecting on your life, your heart, your emotions, and your spiritual journey. The events of your life are the context that this happens in. But you’re not trying to keep a complete record of your life.
  • Your Journal is Not An Heirloom.  There’s something embarrassing to admit, but I’ll share it because I’ve learned that I’m not the only one with this experience. My early journaling experiences were difficult, heavy, and complicated. Why? Because as I wrote I kept imagining the people who would, one day, find and read it. Without even meaning to I started writing for an audience. That compromises the opportunity for reflection. You’re no longer telling the truth; now you’re formulating a story for others. A Journal is an extension of your internal dialogue, it belongs privately to you.
  • Your Journal is Not Creative Writing.  Journaling is not where you practice writing. It’s not a place to use your best vocabulary and worry about editing.  This may not be your problem, but you’d be surprised how many creative people treat their journals like their making art.  Your journal ought to be spontaneous, raw, authentic.  You’re not working out your craft; you’re working out your thoughts and feelings and bringing them before God.

Journaling is an outward expression of your inward thought and heart life. Journaling as a tool for spiritual growth becomes a kind of prayer. The only audience is God. It’s an opportunity to notice what’s happening in your life, in your mind and heart, and examine that in God’s presence. So how do you do this?

A Simple Template for Journaling

First, a comment on when and where.   Consistency is your friend when it comes to spiritual practices.  The more familiar the setting, the tools and the time, the easier it will be for you to shift gears into personal reflection, rather than fiddling around.

Here’s what I do. I want to journal every day, but sometimes my life doesn’t allow it. I usually end up journaling 4-6 times a week.   I journal first thing in the morning after getting up, eating and working out. I don’t usually take a long time. Sometimes, when I’m in the middle of complicated or emotionally-triggering circumstances, I’ll take longer, but most days it’s only around 20 minutes. I journal in a Mac application called Day One. It’s easy to use, beautiful, and password protected. Some people struggle to use technology for things like this. It feels less spiritual to them. But for me it’s completely pragmatic. My handwriting is slow and illegible, but I can type nearly as fast as I can think.  Hand-writing just gets in the way of my mental flow.

Each day when I journal, I work through the same 6 sections. In fact, I have a template that I copy and paste, and then I just go section to section.  Here are the sections that are in my template:

  • Catching Up – I start by writing a couple of paragraphs about the significant things that have happened since the last time I journaled. This isn’t meant to be a detailed chronology. It’s simply highlighting and commenting on any events, conversations, or circumstances that have impacted me. I briefly note what happened and how I felt about it. Sometimes I’ll note questions I have that I need to work through or concerns that I have about things that are upcoming. It’s short though, just a few short paragraphs.
  • How am I Feeling? – Next, I do a brief inventory of how I am feeling presently. Part of my spiritual growth has been around becoming more aware of my emotions, so for me, it’s important to practice daily noticing how I feel and why. Am I worried or anxious? What seems to be causing that? Am I upset? Why? Am I happy or excited? I don’t go deeply into detail. This is just a simple inventory to keep me aware of what’s going on inside of me. One of the obstacles to faith is getting derailed by worry or fear. I can defuse much of the energy around these emotions by simply acknowledging how I feel, and reminding myself that God is in charge of outcomes.
  • Gratitude – As I’m shifting toward more spiritual content, I take a moment to quickly bullet-point the things top of mind that I’m grateful for. I usually list 5-10 things. Sometimes they are obvious things like good circumstances. Sometimes this provides me an opportunity to shift my perspective on difficult circumstances by considering what I can be grateful for. I’ve discovered that bitterness and entitlement, two attitudes that absolutely undermine spiritual growth, simply cannot exist in the presence of gratitude. So, I practice daily being grateful.
  • Scripture Reading – As a part of my journaling I am always reading through some part of the Bible. Presently I’m working through the Gospel of Mark, but it could be anything. I read a small section of scripture and note the verses in my journal. I write a sentence identifying what’s going on in the verse. Then I reflect on the verse and what it might be saying to me in my circumstances. This isn’t the time for Bible study. This is an opportunity to read and briefly reflect on a passage and what it might say for my day. I usually have a couple of paragraphs of reaction to the verse and thoughts about how it might apply.
  • Prayer – All of my journalling is something I do in the presence of God, but here I explicitly write out my prayers. I pray for my day, for my family, for my work. I pray for any of the circumstances that are causing me to worry. I pray around whatever came up for me in the scripture reading. My prayer is informal, no special prayer language. I share my heart and thoughts with God and ask for God’s guidance in the flow of my day.
  • Today’s One Thing – Every session of journaling ends with a single sentence. “Today I will…”  I write one thing that must be accomplished during this day. Sometimes it’s an important to-do that’s on my list, but most of the time it’s deeper than that. With surprising regularity, something will come up while I am journaling. Some person I need to connect with, some failed interaction that I need to make right, some sense of direction. I trust that God is leading in these and whichever one seems the most important or urgent, I commit to doing.

That’s it. Some days I cruise through it in 15-20 minutes. Other days it expands and I spend 30 or 40. Each day this process gives me a touchstone to several things that matter: Orienting my heart around God, setting my baseline attitude to thankfulness, noticing and reflecting on my feelings and circumstances, and considering who I want to be.

I’ve journaled using many methods for many years, but this process — simple, short, and focused — has proven to be the most consistent for me. This simple process has been the morning cornerstone of my personal growth through the last 4 very turbulent years.

15 thoughts on “How to journal for spiritual growth.

  1. I’ve journaled for years and love to look back and see how far God brought me. It’s not something I notice from day to day, so the reminders are good.

    I’ve used Day One for almost a year and I LOVE it! I paid for the iPad version and loved it so much I also bought the Mac version.

    Thank you for fresh insight on how to journal, Marc. Great article!

    1. Hey Kathy, I so agree. It’s like without the journal, I struggle to really notice what’s going on in my internal world, and what God might be up to, but with the journal it becomes so apparent. Thanks for the comment! Glad I can help.

    2. That reminds me of a quote I saw a couple of weeks ago: I write because I don’t know what I think until I read what I say. ~ Flannery O’Connor 🙂

  2. Marc,
    Great post. I journal daily (weekends excepted). I use write my entries using Evernote. I have a keyboard activated template that populates a note. I have similar headings that I use.
    After reading your post, I realize that I need to write one on my blog describing my journaling method.
    Best to you. I just found your blog after you followed me on Twitter. I like what I’ve read so far.

    Greg

  3. I am benefiting from your posts, Marc. Thanks!

    A potentially silly tactical question here… Do you store your Journaling Template in Day One or somewhere else. The template seems key to effective and consistent spiritual journaling. Starting with a blank page daily might keep many away from doing it. True?

    1. Great question. When I journaled by hand, I wrote out the template on the first page of the journal, and then just copied over the sections as I entered a new day. But, as you imagine, that is tedious, and I’m all for removing obstructions.

      Since I started journaling electronically, I’ve always kept the template for copy-n-paste purposes. I started journaling in Evernote. In that case, the template was simply its own note that I set up a quick link to.

      I use Day One now. It’s strictly a sequential journal app. When I started in Day One I wrote out the template on the first day. Then as I start each new day, I simply copy the contents of the previous day’s entry and paste that into the new day. This also gives me the benefit of seeing yesterday’s content. That’s been helpful for tracking prayer, my general attitude, where I left off in the scripture the day before, etc.

  4. I enjoyed your suggestions and the template for journaling. I enjoy journaling though at times, it felt more like I was keeping a diary. I struggled on how to journal for my own growth. Your suggestions will be very helpful. Thank You!

    1. Great to hear, Patti. The real distinction between a diary and a journal for personal growth is whether you are reflecting on your experiences and how God might be working in them. We don’t journal to record our history of events. We journal to know our own hearts and minds, and to look for patterns where God might be working or calling us to grow. Glad to be a help to you! Thanks for commenting.

  5. I am using the journaling app which is free and called Examen. It has similar categories to the one you suggest and has built in guidelines both written and spoken and the template ready to go along with a timer. Another valuable tool I personally find helpful is my Anglican rosary beads and the variety of prayer resources that are available.
    I have been following your writings for quite some time and find them very helpful, clear and conducive to Spiritual growth as I like your format, organization and practical action steps with lots of examples.
    Recently I became more familiar with Rule of Life and your writings tie in well and add to and reinforce and encourage many of the same principles of reflection, intention, contemplation, and action.
    Drawing from several resources has helped me to develop and modify my personal daily prayer and study time.

    1. I love this. That app sounds great. Any tool that can help build the habits of health gets my vote. The rule, the daily office, etc are rich examples of how our spiritual ancestors built these habits.

  6. Hi Marc, I loved all your ideas and thank you for your post…important for people to hear about this powerful transformative tool. I started journaling at a young age and have since spent my whole life returning over and over to this powerful practice and it has grown with practice. Today I refer to it as writing to God and often I will cry out my heart to God through my writing and find great release and healing in this way. Then I often sit quiet and believe I hear a still quiet voice from deep within begin to answer my questions to God…and I believe it is God speaking to me….my spirit moves and I feel the warmth of God’s embrace come over me and I am brought to a place of deep inner peace…it is so beautiful. I love journaling to God.
    Thank you

    1. What a wonderful experience you’ve had. I’m so glad you’ve had this practice available to you. I know it’s been transformative for me! Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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